What's up with the world???

Gay people seem to find a partner almost everywhere and under most difficult circumstances but most of the time it's not about feelings. It's just about getting your cock sucked, just a quickie, no love, no feeling of belonging together, no strings attached.
Unfortunately that's not what I'm looking for. Why is it that every time I meet somebody interesting either online or in some public place, after five minutes of conversation they tell me that I'm beautiful and that they want to fuck me? It's always right in that moment when you think "Oh God, that's Mr. Perfect!" and then, after few short words all the magic is gone and you know it's just another guy who's desperately looking for a hole to stick his dick in.
I know I sound naive, but I seriously think that there is more to life than just sex, yet we all pursue sexual gratification not paying attention to all the beautiful things around us. Sex became the opium of 21 century, destroying lives and relationships all around the world and most of us become addicted to it to the point where we just have to score and shoot our load at least once a day.
I've had some one night stands but I never became addicted to it because for me sex is not just a fuck, it's a lot more.
I've never gotten real satisfaction with a one night stand, it always felt so cold and meaningless to me.
Guys, you should really try having sex with someone you really love, the world would be a better place, there would probably be a whole lot less HIV infections, and you would definitely enjoy it way more than a one night stand.
Having sex with a person you love is different from a one night stand on so many levels. One night stands are an act of selfishness, where it's all about you. Having sex with a person you love is an act of sharing your happiness, trying to satisfy one another, not just yourself.
You might call me an idiot, but I'm just sick of meaningless sex all around me.